a familiar feeling. Becca Kufrin comparison Bachelorette the winner Eric SchwerBlackface controversy with his ex-fiancé Garrett YrigoneSocial media scandal of 2018.
“I was in a very similar situation with the same person I chose after I came out of my season,” said the 32-year-old Minnesota native. Gabby Windy On Wednesday, September 21, in an episode of the “Bachelor Happy Hour Podcast”, the 29-year-old Schwer discussed the drama, sparked before the season 19 finale. “In that moment, I was kind of like you” [are now], I was very shocked. You have this pit in your stomach and you don’t know where to turn.”
Kufrin said that in May 2018, after fans learned that he “liked” an offensive Instagram post mocking women, immigrants, he was giving 33-year-old Yrigoyen “the time and means and education to learn and grow and change”. wanted to and before competing on school shooting survivors The Bachelorette, “That’s what I was hearing [from him],” she recalled, “after all, in my situation, this did not happen.”
She continued: “I learned two and a half years down the road that [Garrett’s] Words and actions were not lined up. ,
Kufrin and the medical sales rep — who got engaged in the season 14 finale The Bachelorette In August 2018 – Disagreements over social issues hit a rough patch in the wake of George Floyd’s death in the summer of 2020. when bachelor in heaven The alum was a vocal supporter of the Black Lives Matter movement, with Yerigoyen sharing several posts supporting the police amid nationwide protests and unrest.
“For those who are curious about my relationship with Garrett at this time, all I can say is that I don’t know,” Kufrin said during the June 2020 episode of “Bachelor Happy Hour”. “Agree” or “agree” with her later fiancé’s positions. “I can’t offer much more. It’s something we’re trying to work on and discuss and work on at home at the moment, and that’s where work will stay. ,
After months of speculation, Kufrin confirmed in September 2020 that she and Yrigoyen had ended their engagement. “After many conversations, we came to this decision. It was not something we arrived at in just one night,” the former publicist told podcast listeners at the time, tearfully. “It was just an Instagram post or someone else’s opinion. Or was not based on comments. There’s more to it. … Just because we’ve come to this decision doesn’t take away all the years and countless memories we’ve made together.”
Yrigoyen moved in with alex ferrari In October 2020, while Kufrin fell in love Thomas Jacobso on season 7 bachelor in heavenWhich aired in August 2021. They announced their engagement the following May.
While things didn’t work out for the Borden founder after her Bachelorette trip, Windy said she hopes Schwer — who proposed during the Tuesday, Sept. Serious. “We don’t have enough time to know yet because it all happened recently,” she confessed to Kufrin and Michelle Young on Thursday. “I think he’s in a place where he wants to change and grow. We talk a lot about social issues because they’re really important to me, so even before all this happened, that’s my opinion.” Knew and I’m going to pursue them.
Schwer also issued a public apology via Instagram shortly after a photo of him in blackface from his high school yearbook reappeared online. “What I thought at the time was a representation of my love for Jimi Hendrix, nothing but ignorance,” he said in his September 9 statement. “I was gullible about the harmful effects my actions had on the black community and those closest to me, and I will always regret my aggressive and hurtful behavior. I am deeply ashamed of my actions and I understand that my apology will take accountability. is the first step.